Let’s say that you acted brashly, in a way that potentially threatens your Irvine, California divorce or child custody situation or your close relationships. For instance, maybe you wrote a snippy email to your ex-wife’s sister, chastising her about some minor issue...
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Seeing Your Southern California Divorce Or Child Custody Battle As Inspiration for Self-Improvement – Part IV
If you are struggling with a Southern California Divorce , you might do things incommensurate with your values. In other words, you might act, say, or do things that you regret, perhaps instantly. For instance, you might: • Yell at your kids, when they’re too slow...
Seeing Your Santa Ana, California Divorce Or Child Custody Battle As Inspiration for Self-Improvement – Part 3
In our last post, we built a case for why you really want to understand the root cause of your Santa Ana, California Divorce and child custody related problems, so that you can make progress in diverse areas of your life. But how do you find the core issues? You can...
Seeing Your Tustin California Divorce Or Child Custody Battle As Inspiration for Self-Improvement – Part 1
Whether your husband left you after one too many quarrels over the kids’ nighttime routine or your spouse just walked out on you and your family one day at work, never to return, you are feeling awful, depressed, confused, and angry. The idea that this divorce – or...
How to Talk to Your New Love Interest about Your Tustin, California Divorce
How should you talk about your divorce with a new boyfriend or girlfriend? After a divorce or separation, your needs for companionship, love, fulfillment, etc. don’t just disappear. They may lie dormant for a few months, as you process what happened to the...
How to Talk to Mutual Friends about Your California Divorce
Here’s one of the most challenging aspects to getting divorce: how should you present the news to mutual friends? Should you “split up” friends from the marriage? Or is it obnoxious and unfair to force your friends to “choose”? Despite the proliferation of advice...
How to Talk to Your Colleagues about Your California Divorce
How should you talk to your work colleagues about your divorce or separation? The answer to this question depends on many factors, including whether or not you work with your spouse, your degree of closeness with your employees or boss, and your level of comfort...
How to Talk to Your In-Laws about Your California Divorce
In our last post, we talked about how to break the news about your divorce to your parents. Here’s a trickier problem: how should you talk with your in-laws about the split? Perhaps you have a rocky relationship with your mother-in-law or sister-in-law, and you’re...
How to Talk to Your Parents about Your California Divorce
You are contemplating separating or getting divorced from your spouse. As part of that process, you need to discuss or break the news to various people in your life. In today’s post and multiple posts that will follow, we’re going to provide insights about how to have...
Welcome to the Hotel California – Part 4
In addition to taking care of your body, mind, and soul — so that you can concentrate on your next steps regarding your California separation — you also need to manage your work. A major marital fight can make work life complicated. Now might be a really good time to...

