Whether your husband left you after one too many quarrels over the kids’ nighttime routine or your spouse just walked out on you and your family one day at work, never to return, you are feeling awful, depressed, confused, and angry.
The idea that this divorce – or your impending child custody battle – could be considered “positive” by any calculation seems absurd, possibly even offensive. But as the Buddha and countless sages throughout history would tell you, how you perceive an event can have a profound effect not only about how you feel about it but also about what to do about it.
Your current experience (and your experience over the weeks and months to come) can galvanize positive change in your life and the lives of your children. In this blog series, we are going to address how to reframe your divorce/child custody journey in a positive way, using specific, scientifically vetted tactics and strategies to stop the downward cycle of emotions that have created your current level of stress and confusion.
First and foremost, if you have not yet retained an effective California divorce or family law attorney, get in touch with the team here at Dinnebier & Demmerle for a confidential consultation about your needs.