One of the dangers of going through a divorce while you’re trying ride out a sickness or injury is that you might feel helpless and fail to meet needs for control and autonomy. Even if you can “outthink” your problems and find people to meet your crucial needs in the...
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Month: June 2014
How to Handle Your California Divorce, If You Are Sick – Part 2
How can you manage a California divorce (or child custody matter) if you are sick or laid up in the hospital? Short answer: you need to “outthink yourself.” Assuming that your mental faculties are still descent, you can accomplish a lot, even if you can’t move that...
How to Handle Your California Divorce, If You Are Sick – Part 1
Perhaps you suffered a horrible illness that put you in the hospital — and your wife told you that she was leaving you, right before you went in for surgery. Or maybe you have been struggling with a mental illness, like depression or bipolar, and your husband decided...
How to Raise Kids When You’re Going Through a California Divorce – Part 5
Are you embroiled in a California divorce or separation while raising small children? If so, you face unique challenges regarding managing your time, money and psychology. Obviously, there are no easy, one size fits all solutions. But, hopefully, this series has given...
How to Raise Kids When You’re Going Through a California Divorce – Part 4
Even if you manage to find enough time and money to “grind through” the California divorce, child custody, and child care process, you might find the stress and strain quite withering. How can you manage these events, psychologically, so that you don’t wind up...
How to Raise Kids When You’re Going Through a California Divorce – Part 3
The process of getting divorced in California – while simultaneously taking care of young children – can challenge your financial savvy to its very limits. You face the prospect of your assets being halved (and then some) by the divorce. You also need to figure out...
How to Raise Kids When You’re Going Through a California Divorce – Part 2
If you’re getting divorced in California while raising small children, you probably don’t have much, if any, free time to squander. You may not even have time to work, take care of yourself, or research critical questions on the internet. What are some “fixes” that...
How to Raise Kids When You’re Going Through a California Divorce – Part 1
It’s tough enough to raise small kids when your family is intact. But if your wife or husband recently left you, or if you instigated a split, for whatever reason, you now must confront a two-headed challenge. One the one hand, you must continue to raise your...
Clippers Eliminated From Contention: What This Can Teach You About Your California Custody or Divorce Battle
On May 15th, Oklahoma knocked the Los Angeles Clippers of the 2014 playoffs in game 6, finishing off California’s hopes of a basketball championship this year. If you have been struggling with a divorce or child custody situation, the Clippers’ downfall holds a few...
What the Southern California Wildfires Can Teach Us about California Divorce
In middle of May, an awful series of wildfires scorched Southern California, burning many houses in towns like Carlsbad and forcing the closure of literally dozens of school districts. What can this awful event (or perhaps, better put, series of events) teach us about...