If you’re confused about whether to get divorced — and you’re hesitating because you don’t want to hurt your kids or you’re just confused about what the right decision is spiritually, financially or emotionally — here is a pretty interesting “hack” to gauge your gut...
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What Are the Concerns of Getting Divorced If You Have Kids?
As you ponder the effects of a potential divorce on your children, you would like to be able to predict what life would be like in the future, depending on what decision you make. Obviously, in an ideal world, you would like to be able to run an experiment and watch...
Is there a Good Time to Get Divorced If You Have Kids?
Parents today constantly stress about how their actions will impact their children. But they are often sadly oblivious to how their children impact their own emotional, physical and mental states. As author Jennifer Senior argues in her new book, “All Joy And No Fun,”...
Should Having Kids Effect The Timing of Your Divorce?
How should you time your divorce to do the least damage to your children? Research on this subject is pretty scrambled. Part of the problem is that, to study marriage and divorce, researchers cannot conduct the gold standard of scientific experiments – double blind,...
When Is a Good Time to Get Divorced If You Have Kids?
Whether you’re still nursing a 6-month-old, or you have four children between the ages of 8 and 3, you’re contemplating getting a California divorce. But you’re not sure how to time the separation to make things as easy as possible on your children. On the one hand,...
How to Handle Your California Divorce, If You Are Sick – Part 3
One of the dangers of going through a divorce while you’re trying ride out a sickness or injury is that you might feel helpless and fail to meet needs for control and autonomy. Even if you can “outthink” your problems and find people to meet your crucial needs in the...
How to Handle Your California Divorce, If You Are Sick – Part 2
How can you manage a California divorce (or child custody matter) if you are sick or laid up in the hospital? Short answer: you need to “outthink yourself.” Assuming that your mental faculties are still descent, you can accomplish a lot, even if you can’t move that...
How to Handle Your California Divorce, If You Are Sick – Part 1
Perhaps you suffered a horrible illness that put you in the hospital — and your wife told you that she was leaving you, right before you went in for surgery. Or maybe you have been struggling with a mental illness, like depression or bipolar, and your husband decided...
Clippers Eliminated From Contention: What This Can Teach You About Your California Custody or Divorce Battle
On May 15th, Oklahoma knocked the Los Angeles Clippers of the 2014 playoffs in game 6, finishing off California’s hopes of a basketball championship this year. If you have been struggling with a divorce or child custody situation, the Clippers’ downfall holds a few...
What the Southern California Wildfires Can Teach Us about California Divorce
In middle of May, an awful series of wildfires scorched Southern California, burning many houses in towns like Carlsbad and forcing the closure of literally dozens of school districts. What can this awful event (or perhaps, better put, series of events) teach us about...

