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Avoiding conflict when co-parenting

On Behalf of | Jun 17, 2022 | Child Custody and Visitation

Shifting from a parenting relationship that’s based on your romantic relationship to one that’s based only on raising the children is a huge challenge for many parents. Finding ways to make the arrangement work is critical if you want the children to thrive.

There are a few options that you have to consider when you’re in this position. Make sure that you’re taking an honest look at what’s important for the children.

Choose your battles

Think about each potential battle that you face with your ex. If a battle is over something trivial, throw in the towel. You should save your energy and effort for battles that directly impact the health and safety of the children.

Increased stability

One thing to watch for is fighting over items that the children have to bring back and forth between homes. Instead of making them pack a bag for every transition day, both parents should have essentials at their home for the children. This can help the kids to feel as though both houses are their home, which can increase their feeling of stability.

Avoid competition

You shouldn’t ever try to compete with your ex over who the children will love more. You can’t buy a good relationship with your kids. Instead of trying to do that, focus on building a strong bond with them through quality time and creating great memories.

One of the best things you can do to help the situation is to have a comprehensive parenting plan. This provides both sides with the foundation they need. Everything should be set up for what the children need now since terms can be modified in the future as the kids mature and their needs change.